Friday, January 31, 2020

January Reads (11)




Two stars:           eh, it was okay
Three stars:        liked it
Four stars:          really, really liked it
Five stars:          loved it

1-Star (0)

2-Star (0)

3-Star (4)
***The Overdue Life of Amy Byler (Fiction, K. Harms)
I started reading this in San Francisco last month and then life happened and I finally picked it back up again.  It’s a little fluffy and there were not nearly enough specific book references for my taste, but it was still an enjoyable read.

***The Island Of Sea Women (Fiction, L. See)
A tragic piece of historical fiction.  It was a bit too long for me and dragged a lot in the middle.

***The Dry (Fiction, J. Harper)
I think I need to READ this one instead of listening to it.  Because I actually really liked it.  But I was listening at work and had a lot going on and I think I missed a lot.  Plus, I read that there’s a lot of flashbacks that you only really know are flashbacks by the italicized lettering in the book.  Which would explain why I was confused a lot.  I need a do-over!

***The Vile Village (Fiction, L. Snicket) Book #7
This one was pretty dark.  Still funny though.

4-Star (4)
****The Stationery Shop (Fiction, M. Kamali)
This was a slow read, but definitely worth it.

****The Austere Academy (Fiction, L. Snicket) Book #5
These never disappoint, ESPECIALLY on audio.

****The Ersatz Elevator (Fiction, L. Snicket) Book #6
Laugh-out-loud funny.

****American Dirt (FICTION, Jeanine Cummins)
Oh the controversy.  SO MUCH controversy surrounding this book.  A lot of people love it, a lot of people hate it.  And I knew that going in.  I had read all the reviews on Goodreads and yes, I still chose to read this book.  And I can see both sides.

It is the story of Lydia and her son Luca who need to leave Acapulco, Mexico, after their entire family is slaughtered by the Cartel (this is not a spoiler, this is mentioned on the book jacket).  This happens in the first chapter.

Lydia and Luca are scared for their life, so their goal is to get to the United States.  They are not migrating to the U.S. because they want a ‘better life’, they are migrating because they are actually on the run from someone.

The controversy:  the author, Jeanine Cummins, is not Mexican.  She is Latinx, as she was born in Spain and also had a Puerto Rican grandmother.  She also married an undocumented Irish immigrant.  If you read her author’s note, she discusses the EXTENSIVE research she did for years before writing this book.

I don’t think that someone has to personally experience something to write about it.  Did every author that wrote about World War II, the holocaust, PTSD, etc. personally experience those things?  No.  And to think that that is a requirement for writing a FICTION novel is ridiculous to me.  But, the author MUST do extensive research.  Last year I read a fiction novel about a woman married to a veteran who had PTSD.  IT was horribly executed.  The author appeared to do ZERO research about what it’s like to live with someone with military PTSD.  Did I think the author needed to be in that exact situation and be married to a veteran with PTSD in order to accurately write about it?  ABSOLUTELY NOT.  Did I think she should have done extensive research and talked/interviewed multiple wives with PTSD husbands before she wrote the book?  YES YES YES.

Colson Whitehead stated, ‘you can write about anything, just don’t screw it up.’  The author states in her author’s note, “I do know Luca and Lydia.  I know their lives.  Because I know grief.  I know trauma.  Yes, Luca and his Mami happen to be Mexican, but they could be anyone.  They could be Syrian or Romanian or Haitian.  They are human beings.”  I’ve read loads of reviews on this book by people of all nationalities.  Some loved it, some hated it, some refused to read it.  The ‘loved it’ was a mix of people.  White, Mexican (yup), African American, and others.

This book will make you uncomfortable and it is a difficult read.  It made me realize how much I don’t know about immigration issues, especially living in a border state.  I thought about it ALL DAY when I wasn’t at home reading it at night.  I took it with me everywhere in case I had an extra 5 or 10 minutes to spare.  The writing is excellent.  The ONLY reason I gave it 4 stars instead of 5 is because there were a few slow parts in the middle of the book.

****The Hostile Hospital (Fiction, L. Snicket) Book #8
So funny.

5-Star (2)
*****How Not to Die (Non-Fiction, M. Greger)
Hands down the best book on nutrition I’ve ever read.  I couldn’t put it down!

*****Such a Fun Age (Fiction, K. Reid)
It’s hard to believe this is her debut novel.  I FLEW through this book.  It reads like a ‘light’ book, but tackles some extremely important topics.  Phenomenal.


Total Books Read: 11 (10 Fiction, 1 Non-Fiction)

DNF (2):
Night of Miracles (Fiction, E. Berg) – I was hoping I would like this one, because it is a bit of a follow-up to ‘The Story of Arthur Trulove’, but there was WAYYYYY to many characters and intertwining stories for me to keep paying attention.

Dear Edward (Fiction) – this one got weird REALLY quickly.  I even flipped through it to see if maybe it was an isolated incident, and nope.  Bummer.

Monday, January 27, 2020

01.26.20 Health Check-In

TOTAL 2019 WEIGHT LOSS:  38.3

01/05/20 loss:  .5                (TOTAL -38.8)

01/12/20 loss:  1.4              (TOTAL -40.2)

01/19/20 loss:  .4                (TOTAL -40.6)

01/26/20 loss:  .4                (TOTAL -41.0)

TOTAL 2020 WEIGHT LOSS:  2.7

More details next week.....(too busy!)

Monday, January 20, 2020

01.19.20 Health Check-In

08/2019 loss:  11.2             (TOTAL -11.2)

09/2019 loss:   9.1              (TOTAL -20.3)

10/2019 loss:   6.8              (TOTAL -27.1)


11/2019 loss:   6.9              (TOTAL -34.0)


12/2019 loss:  4.3               (TOTAL - 38.3)

TOTAL 2019 WEIGHT LOSS:  38.3

01/05/20 loss:  .5                (TOTAL -38.8)

01/12/20 loss:  1.4              (TOTAL -40.2)

01/19/20 loss:  .4                (TOTAL -40.6)

TOTAL 2020 WEIGHT LOSS:  2.3

Shocked by my .4 loss because I ate TERRIBLY this week.  I tracked everything, but I ate like crap.  It was an extremely busy week, and when things are nuts I tend to just eat what is quick and easy.  I used up all of my weekly points and some of my activity points.  And I wasn't a very honest tracker.  

Treats I enjoyed this week while losing weight (don't judge me ha ha):
Big Mac (yeah)
3 chocolate chip cookies
Lots of trail mix
3 mixed drinks
orange chicken
chocolate
sausage, egg and cheese biscuit
cheese enchiladas
1/2 piece of cheesecake
carmel corn
a baguette from Panera

See?  Not great.  And I'm sure there's more that I forgot.

Random thoughts:
*It feels SO GOOD to be back at Barre.  8 classes down this month, 7 more to go to hit my 15!  I took the 5:00 p.m. Sunday class last night for the first time.  I actually really, really liked it.  I came home energized and was able to get ready for the week, folded and put away all the laundry, and was still in bed by 9:00.  There was 13 people there (which is pretty full for our small studio, even though technically I think 18 is the cap).  So I'm hoping to make Sunday evening Barre a regular habit.  It's a nice way to squeeze in another class at the end of the week.

*I went through all of my Barre clothes.  Which consist of leggings, sports bras, and tops.  I got rid of probably 6 pairs of leggings that were too big, which left me with 5 pairs.  Which is plenty for now.  Tops are another issue though.  I went from probably 15 tops down to 5.  And the 5 I have are not great.  I don't like flowy tops...when i'm planking, I don't like my shirt to hit the ground.  So because a lot of my previous shirts were XL, they just are too baggy now.  I need to get some more fitted shirts or ones that I can tie in the back.  I've been looking, but not hard.  I didn't find any at Target or Nordstrom Rack.  I might check out Carrie Underwood's line of workout clothes...I think I remember seeing some tops that will work.  It's on my list of things to do!

Monday, January 13, 2020

01.12.20 Health Check-In

08/2019 loss:  11.2             (TOTAL -11.2)

09/2019 loss:   9.1              (TOTAL -20.3)

10/2019 loss:   6.8              (TOTAL -27.1)


11/2019 loss:   6.9              (TOTAL -34.0)


12/2019 loss:  4.3               (TOTAL - 38.3)

TOTAL 2019 WEIGHT LOSS:  38.3

01/05/20 loss:  .5                (TOTAL -38.8)

01/12/20 loss:  1.4              (TOTAL -40.2)

TOTAL 2020 WEIGHT LOSS:  1.9

Better.  And I hit the 40 pound mark!!!

Treats I enjoyed this week while losing weight:
Fried macaroni and cheese (Cheesecake Factory)
Chicken Bellagio (Cheesecake Factory)
Pineapple mojito (Cheesecake Factory)
Wayyyy too much trail mix and popcorn

Random thoughts:
*My wardrobe is dwindling.  I need new workout clothes.  I went to Nordstrom Rack on Friday and bought a new black skirt and a super cute shirt and some  underthings.  I didn't find much of anything else....it's so weird to be kind of between seasons.  I wanted to buy sweaters, but they didn't have many.  All of them were on clearance and picked through.  Oh well.  I should be focusing more on spring/summer clothes anyways, hopefully I'll be closer to my goal by then.

*My skin is sagging.  I'll spare you the details.  But I dropped some cash on some Philosophy wrinkle/firming creams for my face and neck, and also some Nivea firming body lotion for other areas of me that are sagging (there are many).  I got rid of most of my other lotions so that I would be forced to use these exclusively.  Hopefully I'll see some results, especially paired with Pure Barre.  Speaking of....

*I went back to Barre!  I took a break for a month and didn't go at all.  But I'm back and it feels really good.  Even though it's still horrible ha ha.

Monday, January 6, 2020

01.05.20 Health Check-In

08/2019 loss:  11.2             (TOTAL -11.2)

09/2019 loss:   9.1              (TOTAL -20.3)

10/2019 loss:   6.8              (TOTAL -27.1)


11/2019 loss:   6.9              (TOTAL -34.0)


12/2019 loss:  4.3               (TOTAL - 38.3)

TOTAL 2019 WEIGHT LOSS:  38.3

01/05/19 loss:  .5             (TOTAL -38.8)

I'll take it.  I was VERY lazy last week with my tracking and measuring.  

I'm trying to be better at tracking and keeping track of my weekly treats.  So hopefully this week I'll have a larger loss.  

Thursday, January 2, 2020

2020 Goals




Here are most of my goals for 2020:

*Read more (always).  My goal is 100 books in 2020.
*Hike more.  At least once (preferably twice) a month.
*Use the library more (put new books on hold, whether they be physical books or audio books)
*Blog more
*Hit my goal weight (I’m not putting a date on this….but would like to be close around June or July)
*Be more strict with money
*Be more productive at work
*Up my public witnessing game
*Hit my 250th Pure Barre class by July (preferably earlier).
*Cut back on eating meat (not completely…but I’m going to aim for at least 50%).
*Shop for higher quality clothing/shoes once I reach my goal weight.
*Explore New Mexico more.  There are SO many places I haven’t seen yet.  White Sands is at the top of my list.
*Declutter my house/simplify as much as possible.  The more crap you have, the more stuff you have to clean.
*Put together 3 puzzles (it’s so relaxing).

Nothing major, and I think I’ll be able to accomplish most of them!

2019 Reading Recap




I read 94 books in 2019.  My goal was 100, so I came close!

Here are my 5-star reads in 2019:

Non-Fiction
Midnight in Chernobyl
Big Dreams, Daily Joys
Maybe You Should Talk to Someone

Young Adult/Children’s
Scythe
A Night Divided
The Book Hog

Fiction
The Family Upstairs
The Mother-in-Law
The Lager Queen of Minnesota
The Dutch House
The Travelling Cat Chronicles
The Bookish Life of Nina Hill
Ask Again, Yes
Where the Crawdads Sing
Caroline

I didn’t have a hard time picking out my favorites.  It was between ‘The Dutch House’ and ‘Ask Again,  Yes’.  Ultimately, I have to say ‘The Dutch House’ by Ann Patchett was the best fiction book I read in 2019.  I’m still thinking about it!  I’m also still thinking about Ask Again, Yes, which is a strong #2.  And #3 goes to Where the Crawdads Sing.

A good reading year for sure!

December Reads (2)




Two stars:           eh, it was okay
Three stars:        liked it
Four stars:           really, really liked it
Five stars:            absolutely loved it

1-Star (0)

2-Star (0)

3-Star (1)
***Things You Save in a Fire (Fiction, K. Center)
3.5.  Very predictable, somewhat cheesy, but it was a nice and light-hearted read. 

4-Star (0)

5-Star (1)
*****Midnight in Chernobyl (Non-Fiction, A. Higginbotham)
What. A. Mess.  Unpreparedness.  Secrets.  Lies.  Miscommunications.  Hesitation.  Soooooo much hesitation.  Finger pointing.  Blame.  Radiation doses 3 times the lethal level.  Adam Higginbotham writes this non-fiction telling of the largest nuclear disaster in history like a novel.  You will know more about nuclear power and radiation sickness than you ever thought you wanted to.  Amazing.  I actually want to read this one again. 

Total Books Read: 2 (1 Fiction, 1 Non-Fiction)

DNF (2):
A is for Alibi – Snooze. 
The Age of Miracles – another snooze.

2019 Year in Review

Whew!

2019 was a busy one.  Here’s a recap:

January:  Went to Ojo Caliente Spa with a group of friends.



February:  Howie died.  ☹ 



March:  I took my 100th Pure Barre class!  My sister-in-law and niece came for a visit.  We had a great time!



April:  We celebrated our 9 year anniversary and had dinner at a restaurant with a beautiful view:



May:  Hubs had to go to D.C. for work, and I tagged along for a few days.  We saw all the things. 



June:  My sister came and we went to all the bookstores and also the convention. 



July:  I got promoted.

August:  I started my ‘get healthy’ journey.

September:  We traveled to Denver and went to a football game and a concert.  We also had our circuit assembly and my husband went to D.C. again for work. 




October:  Balloon Fiesta.  And my brother came to visit!  We had a lot of fun.



November:  We spent November preparing for December.  We found out that hubs was matched with a service dog.  He also went to Boston for work.  I did Black Friday shopping again!

December:  December was all about the new puppy.  Hubs was in San Francisco for 2 weeks.  I flew out for a few days.  We saw Hamilton!  We drove home, stopping in Las Vegas on the way. 



Other things to note: 
*I lost 38 pounds.
*I read 94 books.  I didn’t hit my reading goal (100 books), but I came close!
*I started hiking and hope to do WAY more of it in 2020!
*I saw a couple movies in the theater:  Avengers Endgame, Downton Abbey.  I may have seen a couple more, but those are the two I remember.
*I don’t put pictures of other people up on this blog any more.  That’s why you won’t see many ‘people’ pics.  Just FYI.

Visitors (5): 
Uncle Bob
My sister-in-law and my niece
My sister
My brother

New family members (2):
1 great niece
1 nephew’s wife (niece-in-law?)

New pets (1):
Xy Xy

Places traveled (I track all the places we go.  It helps to look back on when I’m having a bad day or feeling sorry for myself for some petty reason.  Traveling is my therapy):

Espanola/Taos, NM (Ojo Caliente)
Washington D.C.
Denver, CO
Centennial, CO
Englewood, CO
Placitas, NM
Jemez Springs, NM
San Francisco, CA
Sausalito, CA
Penngrove, CA
Petaluma, CA
Santa Rosa, CA
Las Vegas, NV

We got to add quite a few more red pins to our travel map!

20 Years of Reading

20 years.  TWENTY YEARS OF READING. Okay, so technically this isn’t true.  I’ve been reading since I was 5.  So (here’s my age)…I’ve been re...